Do what successful people do. Once per week for the next few weeks, you'll receive "Hooking Up," shortcuts to help you connect with the overflow of eager members nearby.
Tip #1 - Before someone hooks up with you, they want to know about you. Complete your Profile. Aside from the appeal of learning something about you, your complete profile tells other members that you care enough to spend a few minutes beginning the conversation.
Tip #2 - Cast a wider to connect with more members. Some people like Chatrooms. Others like Instant Messenger. Both of these are LIVE channels to interact 24x7. These are for late-nighters or members who simply don't want to send messages back and forth. Try both of them. Other members favor
Message Center
, because it's more like traditional email. SPOILER! The most successful members on AdultFriendFinder use all of these, or at least 2 of them.
Bonus tip. Generic messages (like, "What's up?" or "Wanna see my huge schlong?") tend to get ignored. Your messages don't have to be super long, but make each of them unique. Call out something in member profiles that really catches your eye. You'll get noticed by standing out from the onslaught of "one-liners."
